LIFE is Good Unschooling Conference Blog

For years, I’ve watched children grow up inside the LIFE is Good community, kids who spent their days building forts in the hallways, staying up too late with friends, and discovering who they were in an environment that trusted them deeply. Now many of those same kids are adults. Some are parents. Some are stepping into the very role their own parents once held: deciding how to raise children in a world that doesn’t always understand freedom, autonomy, or self directed learning. And as they step into that role, they’re doing something completely natural. They’re reflecting. Every grown child, unschooled or schooled, eventually looks back and asks questions about how they were raised. It’s not a rejection. It’s not a crisis. It’s simply adulthood arriving with its own clarity. As a long time conference host, I’ve come to see these reflections as a gift. They help us evolve our approach to unschooling without losing its heart. Below are the themes I hear most often from grown unschoolers, paired with the solutions and strengths I believe our community is uniquely capable of offering.








